Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Valentine's day

I don't remember when I found him. It might have been a few years. I only remember I found him in a store. He has the characteristics I like. I checked him out. I fell for him. Then he became my "the one and only". He is great. When I need him, he always gives me comfort and satisfaction. He is so sweet.

However, last week, I couldn't find him. I have tried three times! Maybe I should try new things. I did, however, I didn't have the same comfort or satisfaction he gave to me. Yesterday, I went to find him again. He was there. I was soooooo thrill!

That was the story of my "Vanana" yogurt. Last week for three days I went to Trader Joe's, they went out the "Vanana" yogurt each time I went. Yesterday afternoon, I went to the store again, and they have it. I was sooo glad. It is Valentine's day today. I think my story today should be romantic.^_^.

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Wedding

Saturday, I attended a gay wedding. The wedding was for two men, and it was very lovely.

The grooms are good friends of one of my housemates. Even though I don't know the grooms very well, I got invited to the wedding, as the wedding was held at the house where I live. I had only been to wedding once before. I was looking forward to the wedding.


The house was decorated nicely. The catered food was quite delicious. The highlight of the wedding was when grooms exchanging their vows. I could hear the moving and happy weepings from different corners of the room. Their love touched everyone in the house.

I have to mention two other things. First, both of grooms' ex-boyfriends were invited and attended their wedding. They were all happy to see the couples being happy together. Second, the wedding cake that my housemate's brother made was very delicious.

Thursday, February 01, 2007

孟子 (Mencius)

"故天将降大任于是人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨,饿其体肤,空乏其身,行拂乱其所为,所以动心忍性,曾益其所不能。"--《孟子·告子下》


"Thus, when Heaven is going to give a great responsibility to someone, it first makes his mind endure suffering. It makes his sinews and bones experience toil, and his body to suffer hunger. It inflicts him with poverty and knocks down everything he tries to build.

In this way Heaven stimulates his mind, stabilizes his temper and develops his weak points. People will always err, but it is only after making mistakes that they can correct themselves. Only when you have been mentally constricted can you become creative."--Mencius (Translation is taken from a website
of a Japanese college)

This is great about the Internet. If anything comes to my mind, I can look it up in Google and find something related to it. If I find something in Chinese, I can also find its translated versions.

Now, I remember why I cited Mencius. I think Chinese have emphasized or appreciated too much that suffering is to lead to success. Enjoyment has been negate.

Saturday, January 20, 2007

Driving

I finally officially started driving in January 2007, even though I passed US driving exam and got my driver's license in 2004.

When I finished the second driving exam, the driving examiner said:"I can't believe you passed the exam!" That was how I got my driver's license.

In 2005, after one year I had my license, first time I got a chance to drive on the road. A friend of mine and I rent a car and planned to go to Grand Canyon from Los Verges. My friend let me drive for an hour or so, and he said to me:" Lin put off of the freeway. I'll drive for the rest of the trip." So I did, as I have never seen him being so serious.

Due to my glamours driving history, none of my friends were willing to let me drive their cars. Last December, I joined the flexcar program for the purpose of driving practice. The program covers cost of gas, comprehensive driving insurance, and automobiles. That means I can officially drive now. The first trip was to warm up. My friend, Rebecca, was brave enough to sit in the car with me to give me instructions. Rebecca thought I was a careful driver but I need to speed up a little bit. My second trip was tonight to a Korean restaurant in Lynnwood, locating about 20 miles north of Seattle. I did all right to the restaurant, except that I missed one traffic light on highway 99.

So people, relax! I won't get onto the freeway until July of this year.

Make the force with me.

Sunday, January 14, 2007

Ski season started

I went skiing first time of this season. The weather was nice: sunny and cold. The snow was abundant. With three-day weekend, Stevens Pass attracted numerous skiers and snowboarders.

Last ski season, I just started doing the blue trails. I hope I can run the blue trails smoothly by the end of this season.

Friday, January 05, 2007

Housewarming

My parents built a new house at my father’s village this year. Traditionally, a ceremony for moving in new house and a housewarming should be held on the day when my parents officially move to their new house. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. My parents decided to have a traditional ceremony and housewarming.

A traditional ceremony and housewarming is nothing simple nor easy. It took my parents a month to prepare.

First, a “lucky” day for moving in the new house should be chosen based on “Yi Jing”, an ancient Chinese semi-scientific book of “Feng Shui”. My parents consulted an experienced senior in “Lin” family and decided December 23rd, 2006 as the “lucky” day for housewarming. Another reason they chose December 23rd was that I would be in town to attend the ceremony and housewarming. According to the custom of the village, my parents should invite their relatives, friends, and colleagues to have lunch and dinner that day.

Second, my parents need to make a decision on who they have to invite, who they should invite, and who they want to invite. For the last several years, my parents were invited to a few weddings, housewarmings, etc. They kept all the invitations! Those invitations were the importation source that they based on to invite people. In addition, close relatives were ones who they have to/should/want invite. The list included 42 families!

Then, my parents had to write invitations and send them out to each family. Since housewarming is a good lucky event, red invitations should be used. My mother is quite good at calligraphy. She hand-wrote all the invitations. My father was responded to send out all the invitations. At the same time, menu needed to be decided. Chinese are in favor of event numbers, therefore, event number of dishes are preferred. My father chose eight dishes for a table with 10 people. As there were so many people would come to have meals at my parents’ house, my parents hired chefs and waiters and waitresses from a restaurant to make lunch and dinner on the day of housewarming. I was told that the restaurant would buy and prepare all the materials needed, including all vegetables, meats, tables, chairs, chopsticks, rice bowls, etc. Chefs would cook everything fresh at where housewarming was held. This is a kind of service offered in quite a lot of restaurants in Zhongshan.

Conventionally, moving to new house also should move one’s ancestors together with. Therefore, ceremony of inviting ancestors to move in needs to be done. In the village, Guan Ying, god of earth, god of heaven, god of front door-guard, and god of cook are worshiped. They also should be invited to the new house. Overall, the ceremony of moving into new house includes three parts: moving the person and family, their ancestors, and all the gods and goddesses they worship to the new house. For moving the person and family, my parents prepared the required items, such as new red water buckets, new red washbasins, new dishes, new bowls, new chopsticks, etc. Special items for moving one’s ancestor and gods and goddesses include hundreds of paper-made mountain-shape gold and sliver, paper-made new clothes, shoes, and hats. To worship the ancestors and gods and goddesses, scents need to be prepared. In addition, a whole cooked rooster, a whole cooked fish, a big chunk of pork, some tofu, etc need to be arranged. Guan Ying is said to only have vegetarian food, so special vegetarian food is prepared. As my parents didn’t have experience doing ceremony, they invited my father’s two older sisters to help. Since there were too many things to prepare, my parents couldn't have everything ready until the midnight of December 23rd.








Finally, it was the housewarming. I was waken up by my mother by 5:30am! My two aunts had started preparing for more than one hour by then! According to the experienced senior of “Lin” family, the good time to have ceremony was early morning on December 23rd, 2006.

The traditional ceremony
Six o’clock, the ceremony started. First water buckets and washbasins needed to be filled with water. Additional items such as lucky money, etc (I couldn’t remember what other items were) were added to the buckets and washbasins. Then, my dad holding a huge rice cake, my mother holding pictures of ancestors, and I holding “Guan Ying” were walking in line to the door of the new house. Scents for ancestors and Guan Ying were lighted. Worship items were presented in front of the door. Two big chains of firecrackers then were lighted. The first part of the ceremony was done: my parents officially moved to the new house. Before starting the second part: inviting one’s ancestors to move in the new house, requesting protection of god of heaven had been carried out by praying to the god of heaven. Then inviting one’s ancestor to move into the new house started. Paper-made mountain shape gold and sliver, and paper-made clothes, shoes, and hats were burned. My parents and I each prayed in front of the ancestors. Then, one of my aunts used a pair of wooden items by their landing patterns from throwing them into air to indicate whether ancestors have moved into the new house. Similar processes were done for inviting gods and goddesses. By the time the ceremony was done, it was around 8:30am.

Cooking for Housewarming
Four male chefs and about five waitresses from the restaurant came around 9 o’clock with all material in a truck. It seemed the crew knew what to do well. They didn't need to talk to each other much. Five stoves were set up just outside my parents' house in a very short time. Some crew members started washing vegetables, and meats. Two of the chefs responded for chopping and cutting. Two other chefs responded for cooking. They were so organized. Tell you the truth, I haven't seen anything like that before. By noon, a feast of ten tables were ready!










As for the people who were invited to the housewarming, I have to say that I only know half of them. Since I have only gone back home during the vacations for the last nice years, I haven't seen some of my relatives for almost ten years! It was nice to see them again. It was also interesting to meet those people who are my relatives but I haven't met before.

It was a very long day on December 23rd, 2006. At the end of the day, both my parents, my two aunts who help us, and I were very tired. We were very glad that all the guesses enjoyed the feasts including lunch and dinner, as all the dishes were finished! The chefs prepared more than enough, but the dishes were so good that people took the leftover home.

Happy New Year

Happy New Year!

Hope you in the new year

Enjoy whatever you do
Do whatever you like!

Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Canada Geese

According to a friend of mine who majors in biology that those are not Canada geese, instead, they are surf scoters.





Monday, December 04, 2006

My Country and My People

I love reading this book "My Country and My People" (Lin, Yutang. 1935. My country and my people. New York : Reynal & Hitchcock).

"There is no end to the number of things it would be a pleasure to say about My Country and My People, but the only important statement first and last is that reading it has far more value than talking about it."
(Charlotte Tyler)

"First giving an idea of the rhythm of Chinese history, the physical development of the Chinese, and the qualities of Chinese thought, Dr Yutang Lin then goes in more detail to the behavior of the Chinese man in society, his political system, his relation to his family and nation, his ideas about sex and the position of women, the arts of prose and verse, of writing with the brush and of painting, and the art of living itself."(Charlotte Tyler)

Like doing my own research, the more I read the more confused I feel. As a Chinese having lived in China for 22 years, I still don't know how to answer when people ask me "tell me about Chinese culture, and what Chinese people like".

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

听来的故事

琦在朋友的聚会上认识瑞。

一个礼拜后,琦告诉她的一个好友游她喜欢瑞。

琦的好友游也正好是瑞的好友。

游告诉瑞琦喜欢他。瑞反应像是满高兴。

第二个礼拜,他们三个一起去看了“Closer”。

两个月后经过一次旅游,游发现她也喜欢瑞。游向他表白。同时告诉他,她不想做第三者,架在其中, 因为她知道他有个女朋友在家乡。瑞说她对他的感情会在短时间内再变成友谊的。

琦很不高兴,因为那次旅游,只有游和瑞。同时,她也知道游向瑞表白。

两个月之后,琦再次与游联系,告诉游她对瑞很生气,因为她不知道瑞有女朋友。 这两个月来,她和瑞一直在约会。而且这两个月来他的女朋友从他家乡来看他。

游不知道如何安慰琦。这两个月来,琦没有联系游。游也不知道瑞和琦在约会。

游打电话给瑞,告诉他,她很不赞同他的作法。

再过了两个月,瑞打电话给游,对她说她不应介入次事。

琦是她的好友。瑞也是她的好友。感情的事情理不清。于是游表示中立,不再过问。

可是琦觉得被游出卖。在琦离开后,琦再没和游联系。

事过半年,瑞告诉游,琦开始给他发电子邮件了。可是琦始终没有联系游。

看到的故事

她很漂亮,但是有洁癖。她总是喜欢把屋子打扫得干干净净,有条不禁。
结婚后有一段时间,她很开心。
可惜她丈夫与前妻的三个孩子和她和她丈夫住在一起后,她变得很忙。忙着上班,忙着照顾她的狗,忙着照顾三个孩子,忙着整理屋子。
她的怨言不多,只是想搬到一个更大的房子,因为这样屋子里的东西就可以整理整齐。

Miscellanous

I was on the phone with my mom last weekend. She told me that she and my dad finally could log onto my blog. When I just started blogging, I told my parents and friends about it last year. However, my parents and many of my friends in China couldn’t log onto my blog.

My mom also said I only have two entries that are Chinese. I think I should write more in Chinese. I feel like my English writing is far from perfect. At the same time, I can find more and more flaws in my Chinese writing.

The other day, I talked to a friend who I haven't seen or talked for a long time. He was telling me that after staying in a city for a while, it was hard to go back to live in previous city he left. On the other hand, it was hard to stay where he lives now longer. He is a traveler and he is building his journeys. Who isn't? He thinks about cities or countries, just like other people think about progresses, promotions, achievements, etc.

Today I got an email from a friend. She told me couple months ago she was getting married. I haven't seen her wedding pictures yet. She told me this time that she was expecting a baby. Now, I can't wait to meet her little one. She's so efficient!

This is an email from another friend. She told me Vancouver, BC due to the big snow storm had black out yesterday for 16 hours. She was in cold and hungry for 16 hours.

One more thing, I just decide that I'll do “长发为君留”。.^_^.^_^.^_^.^_^.

Monday, November 27, 2006

Wet wet wet

Seattle is very very very wet this November. This is a picture from NYtimes

Friday, November 24, 2006

In the cloud

It was the morning of Thanksgiving. My radio/alarm was turn on at 7:10am. I was still half asleep and half awake. Here I heard the NPR news about how many Iraqi civilians were killed. Is US planning on withdrawing troops from Iraq?

After the democrat took over the house, it seems like there have been a lot of changes: Rumsfeld resigned, media start reporting the Iraqi civilian death toll, etc. It seems like US is working on withdrawing troops from Iraq.

I was still very sleepy. I just saw
Casino Royale the night before. Maybe I was dreaming.

Women like him; men want to be him

That is what a lot of people think about James Bond. That was what was said in the trailer for Casino Royale. I saw the movie. I think the movie is very entertaining, specially the scene that a beautiful woman in bikini rides on a large white horse along a Jamaican beach.^_^.

Sunday, November 12, 2006

2006 ACSP Fort Worth, TX

From Nov.8th-12th, I attended ACSP conference in Fort Worth, TX. It was my first time to go to Texas. The weather was quite nice in November. During my stay in Fort Worth, it was sunny all the time. It was even very warm the first couple days.


Downtown of Fort Worth, TX


Kimbell Art Museum


Modern Art Museum

Monday, November 06, 2006

You're beautiful

Recently I have been quite into James Blunt and his "You're beautiful". I went to his world tour concert tonight in Everett. It was very exciting.

By the way, he is very cute.^_^. It seems like I'm going to buy his second CD.